The Secret of Picking Up Women
By Mo Patrick
Every guy wants to know the secret to picking up women. What is the single thing they can say or do, whether it’s a pickup line, or way to act, to get a woman to respond and become attracted to you?
Well, I hate to tell you this, but there is no single thing you can say that will get you any woman you want.
What I can tell you, is that everyone of you out there has seen, first hand, what the secret is to picking up women….. you just don’t realize it.
After my own success with women and just simple observation when I’m out in bars or clubs watching other guys interact with women, the secret becomes so painfully clear.
So clear I couldn’t understand how guys keep making the same mistakes over and over again, yet cannot see how to fix it.
I mean they try so hard when talking to women that they often get tongue tied, speak to fast, or talk to much.
Some guys will say something that causes a woman to “shuts down”, and then the guy try’s to “back-pedal,” trying to change what he said to suit what he thinks the woman wants to hear.
They try so hard to impress a woman that they just seem awkward and end up shooting themselves in the foot and never get the woman’s number.
Well, in there lies the secret to picking up women, so what is it?
Don’t Try So Hard!
Yes, its that simple.
Guys that are successful with women don’t go over to a women and try to impress her or change the way he acts or things he likes.
He goes over naturally, talking to her like shes just another person.
They don’t put her on a “pedestal” like she is better than him.
In fact he acts just the opposite of every other guy that “hits” on her day after day. He jokes around with her, teases her, pokes some fun at her, etc
Its these techniques that I explain in my eBook, “Guys Dating Playbook” that help guys breakdown how to attract women and act to get women to “respond” more positively to him.
You’ll start doing the things that NATURALLY impress her. You’ll begin to spark ATTRACTION in her without doing all that hard work that actually leads nowhere.
You’ll start doing things like pretending that you’re the one trying to resist her advances.
You’ll start making fun of her for wearing those shoes, or her huge pocket book, etc.
You’ll have her intrigued and laughing, and all of it will stoke that spark of attraction that she’s already feeling for you because you’re so refreshingly different from other guys.
What you’re really doing here is using an engaging way of flirting with a woman by pretending she’s trying to “pick you up” and poking fun at her.
It makes a woman instantly drop her defenses and switch into “play” mode. She’ll think you’re not like every other guy out there hitting on her.
Most importantly, when you act this way, it lets her know that you’re a man who’s cool and comfortable in his own skin. That you’re a man who’s in control of his life and confident in what he’s doing.
And that’s the real key to creating ATTRACTION.
And, when it comes to picking up women, that’s truly the biggest secret of success in a nutshell. But the fact remains…
You need to get a handle on the basics of how to spark and keep that attraction going, or it just doesn’t matter how good you are at picking up women.
You’ll still end up going home alone.
That’s why, when you’re ready to master the basics of the mysterious force called ATTRACTION, you can read all about it in my eBook “Double Your Dating”.
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Tue, Sep 21, 2010
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