How to pick up women online: Simple tips to save you a lot of time!
By Mo Patrick
Online dating can be great, being able to search through thousands and thousands of profiles on hundreds of sites at the click of a mouse, but it can also cause you to waste a lot more time than you want to.
Way too many guys send out one line messages to every woman’s profile that they find attractive, not only to waste their time, but to not get the results they should.
I’ll going to show you some tips that will SAVE you from wasting countless hours of time online. I will help you decide WHO you should write to as well as WHAT you should say.
How To Pick Up Women Online Tip #1: When Was She Last Online?
Many guys will just write to every woman that they find attractive, only to find that they are not getting many responses back for a few reason.
For starters, they don’t look closely enough at her profile to see when the last time she logged in was. If it’s a week or two, no big deal, she’s probably out living her life and hasn’t had time to check her profile.
But if you look and it says two or three months, don’t expect her to be online to answer your email tomorrow. In fact, the light bulb in your head should go off as you realize, she probably lost interest in the site, found someone or has just decided to stop checking her profile for a number of reasons.
My rule of thumb, skip over profiles that have not been logged into for a month.
If you are the type of guy that reads a woman’s profile and writes an email that references things she has in her profile, writing to women that haven’t been online in 4 weeks would cause you to waste a lot of time, as well as have a negative impact on your confidence if you’re EXPECTING to hear back from them.
How Too Pick Up Women Online Tip #2: No to one photo
If you search through profile, you will come across many that only have one photo listed. These should set off a warning bell immediately! In this day and age of camera phones and palm size digital camera’s there is no reason a woman should only have one photo on her profile. We all know how women love to take pictures of each other when they go out together, so don’t waste your time with one photo.
Women that only post one picture of them do so for a number of reasons. One being it’s the BEST picture of herself and DOESN’T really show how she truly looks!
When a woman has a few pictures of herself posted, it allows you to compare them and see what she looks like in different settings, not just the one with the perfect lighting. Now you can see the not so good ones along with the rest. Now when you meet her, you won’t be disappointed because you know what she looks like from a few different angles, not just her good one!
Many women will use the picture that makes they look slimmer, tanner, lighter, confident, etc.
Avoiding these profiles can have you meeting women faster and wasting time searching. After all, you know how expensive many of these dating sites can be so saving time will also help you save money while avoiding women that test you, making you jump through hoops, not returning your calls, etc.
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